Psychologists and Therapy: Your Comprehensive Guide

What is a psychologist?

Psychologists earn their degrees from graduate schools, and in BC, those with a doctorate (Ph.D.) can use the title 'Psychologist' after meeting the necessary education, training, work experience, and registration requirements. Psychologists typically receive more extensive training in therapy and assessment compared to Psychiatrists and often specialize in these areas. It's common for individuals to see a Psychiatrist for medication management and a Psychologist for therapy.

It's important to note that anyone can call themselves a therapist, so it's essential to verify their credentials before booking an appointment. For the best care, choose someone registered with a credentialed organization that holds its members to professional accountability standards.

How Can Psychology Help Me?

Many people find that therapy has helped them:

  • Feel more confident about the future.
  • Make sense of their lives and discover new meaning.
  • Build more satisfying relationships with family, friends, and co-workers.
  • Manage their moods and emotions more effectively.
  • Feel more like themselves again.
  • Enjoy life in new ways with greater possibilities for the future.
  • Successfully resolve past traumas and unfinished business.
  • Become more resilient in their daily lives.


 

Do I/We Need a Psychologist?

Instead of asking if you need a psychologist, a more helpful question might be: “Could I/We benefit from therapy?” Seeking therapy is often a healthy and proactive step, indicating your willingness to address and resolve challenges.

Why Would I Want to See a Psychologist?

  • Despite telling myself I have nothing to complain about, I struggle to find satisfaction or joy in life.
  • I've reached a standstill with a major life decision and feel uncertain about what to do.
  • I’m having difficulty in important relationships.
  • My job feels overwhelmingly stressful, or I’m facing work-related issues.
  • I’m coping with a chronic health condition or the demands of caregiving for a loved one.
  • I’m navigating a significant life transition—such as marriage, parenthood, empty nest, divorce, retirement, immigration, or job loss—and I'm struggling to adjust.
  • I notice that my actions are hurtful to myself and those close to me.
  • I often feel overwhelmed by life’s challenges.
  • Anxiety, anger, or depression are taking control of my life.

What Questions Should I Ask?

  1. Are you a registered psychologist? How many years have you been practicing psychology?
  2. I’ve been feeling [specific emotion] and experiencing difficulties with [specific issue]. What experience do you have in helping people with similar challenges?
  3. What are your areas of expertise? Do you specialize in working with children, families, couples, etc.?
  4. What types of treatments do you use? Have these treatments been proven effective for my particular concerns?
  5. What are your fees? Do you offer a sliding-scale fee policy?
  6. What types of insurance do you accept?
  7. How will I know if therapy is working? What should I expect in terms of progress and outcomes?

How Long Should Therapy Take?

The length of therapy varies depending on individual needs. Some people find resolution within just a few sessions, while others may require more time. Typically, therapy begins with weekly sessions, and as progress is made, you and your therapist can decide on the frequency that best supports your goals.

What Are Some Signs This May Not Be the Right Psychologist for Me?

  • Lack of Progress: You’re not seeing significant improvement over time, and your therapist avoids discussing your goals.
  • Self-Centered Conversations: Your therapist talks more about themselves than they listen to you.
  • Persistent Discomfort: While some discomfort is normal in therapy, if you feel uneasy or uncomfortable most of the time, it’s a red flag.
  • One-Size-Fits-All Approach: Your therapist applies the same treatment or theory to all issues and doesn’t adjust when it’s not working.
  • Unprofessional Attitude: Your therapist seems distant, judgmental, or condescending, making you feel disliked or disrespected.
  • Overly Directive: Instead of helping you explore options, your therapist gives excessive advice and tells you how to run your life.

Therapy is a Two-Way Street

Your psychologist values your feedback—it helps them provide the best possible support. Don’t hesitate to share if you’re experiencing any of the following:

  • Not Feeling Heard: If you feel misunderstood, unheard, or disrespected.
  • Missed Topics: If the session didn’t address what you wanted to discuss.
  • Approach Mismatch: If you sense that your psychologist’s approach isn’t the right fit for you.
  • Something Missing: If you leave the session feeling like something important was overlooked.

What Are the Qualities of a Good Psychologist?

Here are some key qualities to consider:

  • Warm and Respectful: Approaches you with warmth, non-judgment, and respect at all times.
  • Relatable and Personable: Possesses a sense of humor and treats you as a real person.
  • Sensitive to Concerns: Understands and addresses any reservations you may have about therapy.
  • Clear Communication: Explains the type of therapy being used and how you’ll recognize its success.
  • Goal-Oriented: Helps you set achievable goals and works collaboratively to reach them.
  • Qualified: Holds the appropriate education, training, and experience relevant to your issues.
  • Ethically Sound: Demonstrates high ethical standards and maintains clear professional boundaries.
  • Referral Willingness: Provides referrals if specialized treatment is needed beyond their scope.
  • Medication Knowledge: Has a basic understanding of mood disorder medications and can discuss this with your physician if needed.
  • Open to Feedback: Welcomes feedback about the therapy process and addresses any concerns you may have.

Where Can I Find a Qualified Psychologist?

You can find a qualified psychologist through the BCPA referral service. Visit our website to access the referral service and connect with a professional suited to your needs:

Find a Psychologist

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